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Three questions that can help you decide if he is the right one for you. That is what 27 year old Courtney Empey is going viral for on TikTok. She recently went through break up and while trying to figure out if he should give him another chance a nurse stepped in to give her some advice.
while at her doctors appointment venting about her current relationship drama someone offered her a piece of advice, Three questions to hep you find your partner and make the decision if they are right for you.
Courtney said: “I told my nurse that my ex had come back to me, and I didn’t know what to do and she said I had to ask myself these questions.
“She told me to think: 'If this person was your child, would you be happy?'
“And also: 'If this person was dating your child, how you would feel?'
“And the last one was: 'If this person was going to be the father of your children, how would you feel?'
“It takes the emotion away from the decision and makes you actually look at whether the person fits your standards.
“You then have to be honest with yourself and come back to your feelings and work out if you really love this person and if they support you and make you a better version of yourself.”
In that moment those three questions helped her realize what she was looking for in her partner.
“I worked out I wanted someone polite and courageous as I would want that for my child,” she said.
“I decided that I did then want to give things a go with my ex, but we are taking it slow. Lots of people have then tried this and realised they don’t want to be with that person.
“I think it is important that once you have looked if they meet your standards that you bring your feelings back into it.
“They could perfectly meet your standards but if you don’t love them then it’s not the right guy for you.”
After posting it not only helped Courtney but many other as well.
“People have told me that it’s helped them break up with someone or work out that he is Mr Right.
“I think this is a great way to properly evaluate if you want to be with that person.”
SOURCE: TYLA