Sometimes, it’s the small, everyday moments rather than the grand gestures that shows a person is in love.
Here are 16 unexpected signs you might be in love:
1. You Actually Want To Hear About Their Day - Yes, pretty much everything including the mundane details.
2. You Find Their Quirks Endearing, Not Annoying - The corny jokes, the strange laugh, that your find so endearing. You’re not just tolerating these things; you actually find them charming.
3. You Want To Share Good News With Them First - Because they are your go-to person, and they are yours.
4. You’re Comfortable Doing Nothing Together - Silence isn’t awkward anymore. it’s something that brings you closer together. You can happily coexist in the same space, each doing your own thing, and it feels natural. Just being in their presence is enough.
5. You Start Using “We” Instead Of “I” Without Realizing It - When you’re making plans or talking about the future, you automatically include them. “We should try that new restaurant” or “We might take that dream vacation next year.” They’ve just become a natural part of your life plans.
6. You Actually Care About Their Opinion - Whether it’s about your outfit or a big life decision, their input matters to you. Not because you need their approval, but because you value their perspective.
7. You Want To Make Their Life Easier In Small Ways - You find yourself doing little things to make their day such as making coffee in the morning, picking up their favorite meal, or sending them a funny article when you know they’re having a tough day. It’s not about grand gestures; it’s about the everyday acts of care.
8. Their Happiness Genuinely Makes You Happy - Because their wins feel like your wins.
9. You Start Adopting Their Expressions Or Habits - You might catch yourself using a phrase they always use or picking up one of their habits. It’s not intentional, but they have just rubbed off on you.
10. You’re Willing To Try Things They Like, Even If They’re Not Your Usual Cup Of Tea - Suddenly, you’re watching musicals or trying to surf, not because you’ve always wanted to, but because you want to understand and share their interests.
11. You Find Yourself Daydreaming About Ordinary Future Scenarios With Them - Rather than the fantasy life, you are imagining mundane things like grocery shopping together or growing old on a porch swing.
12. You Want To Be A Better Person - Being with your significant other inspires you to grow, Not because they’re trying to change you. You want to be the best version of yourself, not for them, but alongside them.
13. Their Pain Is Your Pain - When they’re hurting, you feel it too on a deeper level.
14. You’re Not Keeping Score Anymore - The give and take in your relationship feel natural rather than transactional.
15. You Find Beauty In Their Imperfections - The little flaws like a crooked smile, a snort when they laugh — become beautiful to you. You love these imperfections that make them unique.
16. You Feel Safe Being Vulnerable With Them - You’re not afraid to show your authentic self, the good and bad. Whether you’re ugly crying or sharing your deepest fears, you know they’ll accept you without judgment. That’s what makes a good relationship.
Source: Bolde